Add option to disable abort notification

[j4k0xb]

Closes #3287

It's my first PR here so not too familiar with the codebase, hope the way of excluding the logger target is how it's intended to be used (still logs to files/stderr).
I ran clang-format and tested it on Linux.

I think it should be Enabled by default, at least for the next few versions, and then we can ask the community how they feel about it. This way the backlash would be minimal.